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Does there exist an edge-colored graph $G$ with the following properties?
$G$ has a vertex $r$ with exactly three, distinctly colored, incident edges: $(r, u)$, $(r, v)$, $(r, w)$.
Every properly colored$^*$ spanning tree $T$ of $G$ has one of the following two types:
A: $~T$ includes edge $(r, u)$ but neither $(r, v)$ nor $(r, w)$, or
B: $~T$ includes edges $(r, v)$ and $(r, w)$ but not $(r, u)$.
$G$ has at least one properly colored spanning tree of each of these two types.
$^*$(Properly colored means no two incident edges in $T$ have the same color.)
Here is an example of a graph $G$ that meets every condition except the third (it has just one properly colored connected spanning tree, of type B):
Here is an example of a graph $G$ where $r$ has two incident edges, and meets the analogous conditions for those two edges (there are properly colored spanning trees with edge $(r, u)$ but not $(r, w)$, or with $(r, w)$ but not $(r, u)$, and every properly colored spanning tree has exactly one of those two edges):