Let $G$ be an undirected, connected graph, and $s,t$ non-adjacent vertices in $G$. Denote by $k_{st}(G)$ the $st$-connectivity of $G$. That is, $k_{st}(G)$ is the size of any minimum $st$-separator of $G$.
(*) It can be shown that if a vertex $v$ belongs to any minimum $st$-separator of $G$, then $k_{st}(G-v)=k_{st}(G)-1$.
How do you prove the following: Let $S$ be a minimal $st$-separator of $G$ that is not a minimum $st$-separator of $G$. Prove that $S$ contains at least one vertex $v\in S$ such that $k_{st}(G-v)=k_{st}(G)$.
It seems very intuitive that this would hold, especially since (*) can be shown. However, I have yet to find a formal proof...