I want to define a notion of "closeness" between two regular languages of finite words in $\Sigma^*$ (and/or infinite words in $\Sigma^\omega$). The basic idea is that we want two languages to be close if they don't differ by many words. We could also use the edit distance in some way... I could not find good references on this issue.
I don't call it a distance because I don't require all the distance axioms to be true (although it's not bad if they are).
A first attempt is to define $$d(L,K)= \limsup_{n\to\infty} \frac{|L_n\Delta K_n|}{|L_n\cup K_n|}$$ where $L_n$ and $K_n$ are the restrictions of $L$ and $K$ to $\Sigma^n$, and $\Delta$ is the symmetric difference.
Is this "distance" studied? Are there references on the subject (possibly with alternative choices for distance function)? Any help or pointer would be appreciated, thanks.